Case Study: A Couple Facing the Intricate Challenges of Dementia
The Clients
Meet Eleanor and Robert—
A couple facing the intricate challenges of dementia. As dementia eroded their lives, it unexpectedly strained their relationship with their adult children.
Eleanor’s gradual cognitive decline was paralleled by Robert’s growing rigidity, leading to tension and miscommunication.
Robert’s rigidity extended to his interactions with their children, who faced difficulties navigating his expectations.
Facing the Dilemma
Eleanor and Robert’s situation mirrored common scenarios: a husband supporting his wife’s dementia care while facing his own unnoticed decline. Unbeknownst to Robert, he was also showing early signs of dementia.
Meanwhile, Eleanor’s children recognized her deteriorating condition, impacting her basic self-care, medication adherence, and overall engagement. Her existence had transformed into mere survival.
Challenges in Care
The couple’s social nature included a fondness for alcohol, which now posed risks due to their compromised health. Struggling to balance their own wellbeing, Eleanor’s children recognized that the care needed exceeded what Robert could provide.
Determined to find solutions beyond mere survival, they sought external support.

